Ok males of America, listen up please. It is a simple fact that many divorced women have children these days, and a fair percentage have custody of their kids. The concept of a package deal so to speak is nothing new, but the way it is being percieved certainly is.
I have dated moms. Quite frankly I had a good time, in many ways becoming a kid all over again with trips to kiddie resturaunts and birthday parties. It was easy to view these times as fun because they really were. It is tough to get to know such children, their trust is usally not easily earned. But the rewards you can get from doing so may teach you a thing or two about your self along the way. I learned a lot about myself during those times, and actually hope to do so again. I believe that humans need a certain degree of stress in their lives, otherwise when do we know things are good? Not to mention, if such a relationship leads to permenance, helping to raise children will ultimately bring all involved closer together. So carefully think it over, you may be pleasantly surprised in the end.
