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7 Magical Methods to Communicate Lovingly with the People You Treasure
March 19, 2002

1. Let the special people in your life know how you receive caring the most. You may make a gift for each other of a list of 5 top ways to communicate with each person in the household, business, or people in relationship. For example, you may respond best to verbal kudos. Let those around you know it is important to you: they are NOT mindreaders.

2. Play the "Request Game". Agree that you each get one (or however many) requests you decide upon daily. Then when the requests are made, agree to the request with an open loving heart and respond as quickly as absolutely possible. Don't delay!

3. Schedule some specific time for "Agenda Less" time and watch what develops naturally. Chances are whatever occurs naturally will be exactly what you and your significant others would find the most refreshing.

4. Be authentic in your communication and do so consistently. If you are not being clear about who you are in all your communication, how would you expect your loved ones to hit the mark?

5. Start with a clean slate. Forgive your past communications failures and embrace your future communications successes.

6. Practice communication that best suits those you treasure simply because it feels good. Give love freely and without attachment. Don't change your style temporarily, to manipulate. Take it on forever, to cement a powerful future.

7. Finally, a principle that is foundational to communication AND life success. Love yourself enough to invest in the rest of your life. Be grateful for every part of you, whether in the past you have labeled thos parts good, bad or ugly. Take time to treasure yourself.